70 Questions about Love: Dating & Marriage

Published on January 10, 2022 | Updated on June 20, 2024

Love is a very strong feeling of affection towards someone who you are romantically or sexually attracted to.

You say that you love someone when their happiness is very important to you, so that you behave in a kind and caring way towards them.

In this post, you will find all the questions that you need to know and answer to have a meaningful conversation about love.

General Questions about Love

Love is very hard to define since it is a very abstract concept which could mean different things to different people.

These are general questions about love

  1. How do you define love?
  2. Can you define love in 5 words?
  3. How romantic are you?
  4. How can you be sure that you love someone?
  5. Do you love someone?
  6. Do you think destiny real?
  7. What’s your opinion about an ideal relationship?
  8. How can a man win you?
  9. How can a woman win you?
  10. Do you think that celebrating valentine’s day is corny?
  11. What’s the best relationship advice that someone has ever given you?
  12. What’s the best moment in your relationship so far?
  13. What are your biggest fear about a relationship?

Do you agree with this definition of love found in the urban dictionary “The act of caring and giving to someone else. Having someone’s best interest and well-being as a priority in your life. To truly love is a very selfless act

Questions about Love: Boys and Girls

Dating is an important part of finding the right person to be happy with.

These are questions about having a boyfriend, girlfriend and dating

  1. How many boyfriends have you had?
  2. How many girlfriends have you had?
  3. What does the word “crush” mean to you?
  4. When did you give your first kiss?
  5. Do you trust your boyfriend or girlfriend?
  6. Do you prefer dating or being in a relationship?
  7. Do you have a crush on someone?

Dating an ex is the equivalent of failing a test you already had the answers to

Questions about Love: Falling in Love

Falling in love is the development of strong feelings of attachment and love, usually towards another person.

These questions have to do with falling in love

  1. Have you ever fallen in love?
  2. How do you realize that you  are in love with somebody?
  3. How do you know when you love someone?
  4. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  5. What makes people fall out of love?
  6. Do you think that people can change when they love someone?

First best is falling in love. Second best is being in love. Least best is falling out of love. But any of it is better than never having been in love.

Questions about Love: Your Partner

Most definitions of love include another important person in your life so it is ok to ask questions about him or her.

These are questions related to love and your current partner

  1. What do you like or love about your partner?
  2. How long ago did you start your current relationship?
  3. Are you happy with your current partner?
  4. How did your relationship start?
  5. How often do you laugh together?
  6. Do you like spending time with your partner? What do you enjoy doing together?
  7. What’s the most romantic moment that you have shared?
  8. How do you show your love for each other?
  9. Have you ever changed  anything for your partner?
  10. How do you feel when other find your partner attractive?
  11. Do you make sacrifices for your relationship?
  12. Do you enjoy time with your partner?

True love is not a hide-and-seek game; in true love, both lovers seek each other.

Questions about Love: Breaking Up and Divorce

Breaking up with someone and getting divorced is something sad that lots of people go through.

These are difficult questions about love and when you start falling out of it

  • Have you ever thought about breaking up with your partner?
  • What’s cheating / unfaithfulness?
  • How often do you fight with your partner?
  • What are some reasons for breaking up?
  • What’s a hopeless relationship?
  • Are you friends with any of your exes?
  • What’s a relationship deal breaker for you?
  • What would you define as cheating?
  • What lessons have you learned from past relationship?

You never really know a man until you have divorced him.

Questions about Love: Staying together

You need to have some tips to keep a relationship alive over the years

  1. How can you keep love alive through the years?
  2. What makes a relationship healthy?
  3. Should you get married?
  4. Should you have children as soon as you get married?
  5. Do you think that finance should be kept separate or together?

Questions about Love: Dating

These are some questions about dating

  1. How often do you date ?
  2. Have you ever go on a date?
  3. Do you like going on dates?
  4. Would you rather stay in or go out for a date?
  5. How would you like to spend a special day to each other?

Questions about Love: Imagination

These are some questions about love and imagination

  1. If you could invite anyone in the world to dinner, Who would it be?
  2. How would you describe your perfect date?
  3. Would you be crazy rich or deeply in love?
  4. Would you rather travel around the world or have a family?
  5. Would you rather be know for your intelligence or your look?

Questions about Love: Getting to Know him /her better

These are some questions that can help you learn more about the love of your life

  1. What are the responsibilities of a man / woman?
  2. What are your life goals and ambitions?
  3. How important is money in your life?
  4. What movie or TV show do you love the most?
  5. How would you describe your relationship with family and friends?

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How do you define Love? What does it mean to you?

Manuel Campos

Manuel Campos

I am Jose Manuel, English professor and creator of EnglishPost.org, a blog whose mission is to share lessons for those who want to learn and improve their English